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callistotoni ([personal profile] callistotoni) wrote2025-01-18 07:53 pm

Back from the dead

Hello all, remember me? Since it seems prudent to move away from FB I thought I'd try back here. Strap in, my first post back is quite winey.

The unfortunate reality of Jeff's recovery process is that we need to stick close to home while he heals. But there are so many things going on right now and in the near future--very fun things--that I have serious FOMO. Facing cancer at home reinforces that every day is a gift and our days are limited, so to be losing out of having experiences with friends is hitting me very hard.

Jeff's condition is one part, and the other part is money. Partaking in super-fun activities takes money, and right now is probably not the right time to spend resources since we don't know how much all his treatment is going to cost. We are very, very thankful for all the donations and they will very much help. But total out of pocket costs are still unknown right now.

On the very-much-plus side, the treatments appear to be working.
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[personal profile] evil_macaroni 2025-01-21 04:12 am (UTC)(link)
<3 I'm glad to see you here. I don't post much these days but I do read my friends' posts. Wishing you and Jeff all the best during this process. Uncertainty is almost as awful as cancer, in its own way.